My 20 year old son is a high functioning person with aspergers.  He's a senior in college.  Well, as a very young child he was diagnosed with ADDHD without hyperactivity.  Through time (and many, many therapists, psychologists, and psychiatrists) he was rediagnosed as having an anxiety disorder, then ADDHD again, depression.  Finally, sick of feeling like a "zombie" with the side effects of all the meds, he took himself off all medication.  He's coped okay but really has difficulty with social situations and relationships.  He refuses to even consider getting into a relationship and that breaks my heart.  He says he feels like he speaks a different language than anyone he goes to school with - doesn't understand the hidden language, doesn't pick up on social cues, doesn't have the same sense of humor.  What self help audio books, books, or DVD's are out there that might help him?