In my last blog, I said that I had very few friends. But then last year, I met two people that have really changed my life. I won't mention their names for privacy reasons. All I'll is that I gave them a nickname - The Best of Both Worlds.
I have one friend that is known to be very nurturing, compassionate and warm-hearted. She is a mother of six children so nurturing comes natural to her. When she knows that I am down or having a bad day she always noticed and is always there to check up on me. Even on days when I'm fine she'll still check on me. She'll put a smile on your face and try so hard not to do it but you can't help. She's is one of the best people I have ever met in my life and she is a reason why I help others is because of her.
The other one is of a different sort. She is a no-nonsense, tough, strong and driven woman. She's not the type to hold your hand or deal with someone's BS. Lets just say that if you push her she'll push back harder. But I know that's she does it for a good reason. She's the one that will tell you like it is and if I'm having a pity party or feeling sorry for myself she'll bring me right back to reality. I know she does this because she cares. She doesn't show a lot of emotion but I do know deep down that she cares and wants what's best for me. And I'll always love her for that.
You see I have two people; two dynamics; but they all have one goal. To be there for me when I need help or support. If I were to put these two together, they be the perfect friend. I don't know what I done to deserve these two people. They are blessings in disguise and I don't really don't deserve them. They know what type of person I am and they seen both sides of me the good and the ugly but they are still there. They have earned my love and respect and that is something that I don't give away easily. They earned it.
After writing this I actually came up with a new nickname for them: MY ANGELS