Please let me know if this is not the right venue for me.
I have been in and out of a two year relationship with a man that I suspect is on the spectrum. I am a 36 year old divorced mother of 2 boys. He is 43 and I am the longest relationship he has ever had.
I love him because he is quirky, and appreciates my quirkiness. We share many of the same interests and as long as I don't express to him that he has let me down or hurt me, we are fine. Problem is that I am an emotional person, and I'm proud of that. He calls me overly sensitive and irrational at times. I believe he called me neurotic yesterday. I know that is not the case, but sometimes our misunderstandings cause me to lose my patience. He is very critical that I get stressed, but doesn't seem to acknowledge his own stress or the fact that he raised his voice first.
He wants to end the relationship for the 12th time. I getting tired of the off and on, but don't see that he wants to work on our relationship. He asked that I write down a description of our relationship with no emotions attached. Where do you think he is going with this?